Definition: The word 'abouchement' refers to a small opening or cleft in a penis that can be easily penetrated with a male toy. The exact definition of an abouchement varies depending on the context, but it generally means a small hole or slit where a penile toy is inserted. In general, an abouchement is usually not very deep, and most penetrators will insert a wider variety of toys into a particular position without difficulty. However, some people find it uncomfortable to touch or explore certain parts of their penis that they don't want to be explored by other people. It's worth noting that there are also situations where an abouchement is appropriate, such as when the penetration may cause discomfort or pain for someone who feels it should not be touched.