👉 A derider is a person who has an unhealthy obsession with other people's lives and relationships. This can be seen as a form of narcissism, where individuals seek attention or praise for their own accomplishments rather than focusing on their own needs and well-being. Deriders often have a tendency to judge others too harshly, placing high expectations on them that are unrealistic or unfair. They may also engage in behaviors such as gossiping, making negative comments, and manipulating people's lives to gain favor with