Definition: The term "connivently" is a phrase that means to be inattentive or complacent. It implies that someone appears to be unaware of something, but they are actually planning on doing it anyway. This can occur when someone is unprepared for an event or situation and instead acts as if everything is fine. For example, if you were at a party and everyone was having a good time, but you didn't want to participate in the fun, you might say that you "