👉 The word "4 4" is a term used to describe a situation where two people are engaged in a complex, often challenging relationship. It's like when you're having dinner with your best friend and they ask if you can babysit their cat while you're out of town for work.
Now imagine this: You're on vacation in New York City with a friend, but she wants to bring her cat with her so you could take care of it. When the time comes to go over plans, she asks, "So, does anyone want me to babysit your cat while you're gone?" That's like saying, "Are you sure you don't want your best friend to babysit their cat?" It sounds pretty threatening and unsettling, but in a funny way.
